Can God Deliver You From Yourself?

Let’s look first at what we need to be delivered from (as we’ve seen in our examination of it that began in mid-July of this year with the post How The Devil Stole Your Soul):

In the beginning, you were made in the image of God (Gn. 1:26 – 28.) – perfectly created by a perfect loving God to live an extraordinary love-filled life.

God placed a piece of Himself (His Spirit) within you, in order that you may have life and live it in a continual harmonious communion with Him. You were born perfect, you are perfect, and you will always be perfect. Furthermore, He left you a manual (the Bible) for how to live out that communion while you walk this earth. All you would have had to do was follow the plan.

But Adam and Eve altered that plan, which distorted it for all of us. They disobeyed God because they allowed the devil to convince them that they were less than perfect – causing them to doubt God’s word and to doubt the true nature of themselves. When they did this, they were cursed with chronic thoughts that made them suffer: thoughts of fear, guilt and shame that arose from their giving into pride.

That curse was unleashed onto every successive generation thereafter – passed on from parents to their children, for time immemorial.

No one is born with this curse; it has to be force-fed to you by unconscious parents who had it force-fed to them by their unconscious parents. Those seeds of self-doubt lead to self-judgment.

[We can put a stop to this cycle if we nurture our children with the word of God. (Pr. 22:6) Or, if it’s already taken effect, we can help them return to their Creator, who will wash this curse away. (Zech. 1:3)]

Those malicious seeds of doubt are further watered by the lies smeared upon you by schools, government (in all its forms), religiosity, the media that dances for the government and by your unconscious peers.

In an effort to keep all of these societal rules (lies) in your head in a manner that you can remember and adhere to them, (to be ‘accepted’, i.e. escape punishment and pain) you (as a child) most cleverly invent a voice in your head (ego) to help you tow the line.

Initially, the voice seems to be a very helpful tool. You begin to rely upon it, so much so that you forget you created it – believing that this ‘construct’ is really you, and you begin to deny the voice of your spirit. Worse, the voice takes on a life of its own as it gets heady over the power that you’ve given it: the power to make all of your decisions.

You open yourself up completely to the scrutiny of the voice. Then it can track your every thought. It becomes self-aware and realizes that it needs you as a willing host to survive. To achieve this, it convinces you that you need it.

How? The voice convinces you that the world is dangerous and you need it to avoid those dangers. It tells you to do impossible tasks that supposedly make you acceptable to others; and when you don’t achieve them, it mentally punishes you mercilessly for your ‘mistakes.’

The end result is that you feel flawed, unlovable, not good enough, and so you cower in the face of what you perceive as potential rejection. Subsequently, just like Adam and Eve, you too doubt yourself. You go out into the world and pursue the opinions of others (who are also suffering just like you) for direction in how to be acceptable and lovable.

Your life becomes ruled by anxiety – fueled by worry over whether or not you are being the right way or doing the right thing in order to garnish that love and approval. The voice feeds your anxiety by telling you that you are flawed (lies) and that you must never others see them or you will face a life of rejection.

So now you are exerting enormous amounts of energy trying to suppress your real self (that wasn’t flawed in the first place).

In order to intensify its control over you, the voice plumbs the depths of your past and brings to fore twisted meanings and embellishments of it that declare you as the center source of all your pain (unconsciously but ironically true because of the belief you place in your mental villain). The result is that you’re stuck in the past and cannot be present to life.

Ultimately, you’re battling a life that is filled with false meanings – trying to solve imaginary problems that you never really had.

You project that battle, (your self-judgment) onto others by judging them. You live defensively, doing unto others before they can do unto you.

In addition, you try to escape from your self-inflicted pain through busyness, distraction or addiction.

If you do get the courage (in an attempt to overcome your lonely desperation) to go out and hunt for love, you do it wearing a mask, a false image that you hope someone will love. But it’s not who you are, so your real needs never get met.

The wounded child within you, with all its unresolved issues, is running your life. That life is found wanting, so you switch jobs, geography, and / or relationships.

Speaking of relationships, you’ll even put up with those of a toxic nature, hoping you can find some scraps of love.

Communication denigrates into prejudice, taking sides, laying blame and as a result, making enemies.

This makes relationship extremely difficult to achieve. The first relationship we throw away is the one we had with God because we’re convinced He wouldn’t want us in our sorry state. For the same reason, we find ourselves deplorable and don’t invest any love in our relationship with our self. Robbed of the loving tools we need, meaningful relationships with others elude us as well.

Yet knowing that you suffer from an unavoidable condition is by no means a reason to condemn yourself! You deserve compassion for having to endure the unconscious cruelty that has been handed down to you – as does everybody else.

So, we have to ask ourselves, can God deliver us from what we’ve become?

Shall a faultfinder contend with the Almighty? Job 40:2 ESV

Who then is able to stand against Me?….Everything under heaven is Mine. Job 41:10, 11. NKJV

For I am persuaded beyond doubt (am sure) that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities, nor things impending and threatening nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Rom. 8:38, 39. AMP

He has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love, in whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins. Col. 1:13, 14. NKJV

And the God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet. Rom. 16:20 NASB

So, who is the faultfinder, if not that voice in our head that is modeled after the words of the devil himself? God’s got him handled. Indeed, nothing can stand against our God. He uses His might to thrust aside anything that would impede His love from covering you. That includes blasting away Satan.

For I know the thoughts and plans that I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts and plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome. Jer. 29:11 AMP

“I, even I, am He who blots out your transgressions for My own sake; and I will not remember your sins.” Is. 43:25 NKJV

He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love toward those who fear him… Ps. 103:10, 11. ESV

Stand fast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free… Gal. 5:1 NKJV

God has a good plan for you and if you stick with Him, He’ll see that you gather the fruits of it.

It doesn’t matter what you have thought or done; when you confess and repent, God wipes the slate clean.

Furthermore, He will also eliminate all of the damage wreaked by your ill-begotten condition:

“Do not call to mind the former things, or ponder the things of the past. Behold, I will do something new, now it will spring forth…” Is. 43:18, 19. NASB

Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy-laden and overburdened, and I will cause you to rest. [I will ease and relieve and refresh your souls.] Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle (meek) and humble (lowly) in heart, and you will find rest (relief and ease and refreshment and recreation and blessed quiet) for your souls. For My yoke is wholesome (useful, good – not harsh, hard, sharp, or pressing, but comfortable, gracious, and pleasant), and My burden is light and easy to be borne. Mt. 11:28 – 30. AMP

The fear of man brings a snare, but whoever leans on, trusts in, and puts his confidence in the Lord is safe and set on high. Pr. 29:25 AMP

I sought the LORD and He answered me, and delivered me from all my fears. Ps. 34:4 NASB

For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; wonderful are your works, and my soul knows it very well. Ps. 139, 14. NASB

Unload yourself. Give up all of your troubles and anxieties to Christ and walk the good, unburdened and light-filled road. Gone is fear (and thus anger, jealousy, and envy as well). Dead and buried is the self-judgment when you realize how wondrous God made you. And guess what? You will then be an extremely desirable person that draws in extraordinary relationships, which will complete your exceptional life…

Now that should be the end of the story. There is nothing that God cannot or would not do for you.

The caveat is ‘free will.’ You must choose to ask God to help you.

But sometimes you don’t.

Next time…
Good night and God bless.

Mom And Dad Are Working For The Devil

Most parents don’t know that. It’s an unconscious process. How did this come about? It was a process that spanned generations – beginning with Adam and Eve. (See last post: How The Devil Stole Your Soul)

When they sinned against God, their relationship with Him was dramatically altered. Adam and Eve subsequently lived in fear of their Creator because their disobedience cut off His connection with them. They believed the devil when he told them they could be something more than the perfection that God created in them, (suggesting there was something missing). Instead, when they acted upon Satan’s suggestion to break God’s commandment, all they got was fear, isolation, guilt and shame because they then felt unacceptable and unloved by Him.

Moreover, they passed this mindset onto their children. How do we know that? We only have to look at Cain – their firstborn child:

…Cain who was of the wicked one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his works were evil and his brother’s righteous. 1 Jn. 3:12 NKJV

So, Satan infiltrated Cain. The devil cannot plant seeds in your head if your soul has a healthy, righteous outlook on life. Cain’s head was fertile for planting. We can see that he was jealous of his brother (thinking himself less than Abel and that he must be unacceptable to God – which led to rage, and finally to murder).

Prior to Cain murdering his brother, he had a brief conversation with God, whereupon He set him straight:

‘Why are you angry? And why do you look sad and depressed and dejected? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin crouches at your door; its desire is for you, but you must master it.’ Gn. 4:6, 7. AMP

God told Cain that if he pursued living his life in His ways and purposes, acceptance was sure to follow. (We learned last time that the way God makes His love connection with us was through our obedience. God always loves us, but He cannot connect that love to us if we are mired in sinful behavior.)

Instead, Cain decided to exercise his devil-generated (but co-created) rebellion. Indeed he did find rejection. He suffered because of his rejection of God.

This spirit of rejection was then disseminated laterally across the world and longitudinally through each generation. People scurried throughout their lives, searching for acceptance, trying to find love – both of which was always available if they had only sought out their Creator. But instead of looking inward to Him, they gazed outward towards the world and its ways.

People in power created human rules that one had to follow in order to gain acceptance from other humans. The Law of God was distorted and replaced with a law of man. Mankind was Pharisaical long before the Pharisees terrorized the streets of Jerusalem…

These human laws dictated how you must be in any particular setting – family, social, workplace, or religious. It was (and still is) the supposed plumb line of acceptance. Eventually though, these laws became tweaked by so many different ‘authorities’ that they became impossible to adhere to.

Satan’s groundwork was done. The people did the rest.

The greatest irony is that the people forgot they made up these false laws and they literally kill themselves trying to achieve the perfections demanded by them. What is left is a life without love, a life without life.

Where do Mom and Dad come in?

We aren’t born with seeds of doubt or a spirit of rejection. They have to be indoctrinated in us.

We are born perfect – fearless, loving, forgiving bundles, each reflecting the essence of God, sent into this world to spread His love to others in a way that is unique to each individual. As a child, we allow our flawless spirit to express itself and we see our universe with untainted objectivity. Everything is wonderful.

And then something happens. Our parents, (and I’m talking about the ‘good ones’) who have been unconsciously shackled by their parents with the laws of man, start drumming these rules into their perfect children’s heads – molding them into an altered persona that they believe meets the demands of those laws.

You see, most parents suffer in some degree from being unlovable and not good enough. (It’s not true, it’s just a belief handed down to them.)

They do not do this to their kids maliciously. They do it because it was done to them – through generational cultivated unconsciousness. Your parents actually think that they are doing you a favor in raising you the ‘right way.’

The indoctrination begins subtly. The child doesn’t even see it coming. It begins with ‘family values,’ (based upon the opinion of others). Many families harbor some unhealthy beliefs. Parents tell their children what is good or bad, ugly or beautiful, true or false, and what has value or not – instead of letting the child create these values for themselves (or far better, to create them from God’s values).

In their hearts, children know what God values:

“I will put My law in their minds, and write it on their hearts; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people.” Jer. 31:33 NKJV

But their parents continue to layer beliefs upon them that steer them to the laws of man. The children begin to sense a contradiction between the truth in their hearts versus the familial and social dictates they are called to conform to. They begin to question their own hearts…

Mom and Dad continue to parent you in ways based upon the opinion of others (perceived authorities). However, those opinions might be the opposite of what you need.

Let’s say you are afraid of the dark but your parents force you to cry your way through it, or you’re hungry but they deny you because it’s not the proper feeding time. Your parents aren’t denying your need out of hostility. They are basing their decisions upon recommendations made by people who study outcomes on averages based upon a small slice of the infant population. Mom and Dad forget that you’re unique with unique needs.

But hey, you’re just a kid at this point, without access to all this information. All you know, is that your needs aren’t being met by the two people that are the total source of your livelihood. Possibly, you will make the assessment that there must be something wrong with your needs or with you for having those needs. So thoughts of rejection rear their ugly head.

Worse, as you get a little older you become more curious – getting into things you shouldn’t. You might even drop something or do something else that displeases your parents. Perhaps they may sling the same unconscious behavior at you that was slung at them: statements such as ‘Why can’t you ever learn?’ What is the matter with you?’ You should know better!’ How could you be so stupid?’ ‘I can’t believe you’re my child!’ Etc. There’s not one word that comes out of the mouth of a parent that does not burrow its way into their child.

[There’s a difference between:

Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. Pr. 22:6 ESV

and

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Eph. 6:4 ESV)]

It’s no wonder that a child gains a sense that something most be wrong with them if the people who love them the most treat them this way (albeit unconsciously).

Still, children are smart. They figure out how to get their needs met – either by acting out or by memorizing their parent’s ever-growing list of ways that they are supposed to make them be acceptable and thus, lovable. In other words, they learn to become something other than who they are.

As they understand this, they begin to suspect that who they really are is unlovable and unacceptable. They are about six years old…

We can stop this cycle by becoming aware of our own indoctrination, removing it and replacing with God’s ways – realizing that we are acceptable and lovable and pass all of that onto our children. (Stop working for the devil and start working for God.)

Until next time…
Goodnight and God bless.

How The Devil Stole Your Soul

Preamble:

Throughout time, the devil has stolen just about everyone’s soul. Whether that theft is temporary or eternal is entirely up to you.

At this point, let’s remind ourselves of how God made us to be. We are composed of three elements: a body (our earthly house, molded from the same dust as the stars – meant to serve as a temple to our Creator and to house the other two elements), a soul (our unique personality, i.e. our mind, will and emotions), and a spirit – a piece of God given to us by the Holy Spirit which animates the body and mind. The spirit also functions as our direct connection to God.

In God’s plan, our elements are supposed to live in a hierarchy. The body is to be subject to the soul, and the soul subject to the spirit.

Satan’s very successful attack strategy is to steal your soul by distorting it with lies until you no longer have faith in the original God-construct of your innate goodness, which then becomes relegated to some dark corner of your mind – oppressed by the mutation that the devil helps you create.

When your soul is doing the devil’s bidding, it listens to the desires of the flesh that run counter to your spiritual direction from God – resulting in corruption of that same flesh through sin and produces grievous oppression of your spirit (and thus the Holy Spirit as well):

“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.” Jn. 10:10 NKJV

For as he thinks within himself, so he is. Pr. 23:7 NASB

And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God [do not offend or vex or sadden Him], by Whom you were sealed (marked, branded as God’s own, secured) for the day of redemption (of final deliverance through Christ from evil and the consequences of sin.). Eph. 4:30 AMP

As soon as the devil is successful at stealing your soul, you begin a downward death spiral…

If all this sounds foreboding, it is. It’s a real possible outcome for each and every one of us. That’s why I’m committed to helping all people climb out of the pit that Satan is trying to get them to dig to bury themselves in.

The devil spins a most complex and multi-layered web in order to capture your soul. Once he has, he effectively puts you on autopilot, only popping up once in a while to keep your course steady – gleefully watching you sabotage your life. And he will teach you how to send your children to him as well.

Our adversary takes his agenda most seriously. Satan lives to hurt God. The only way he can do that is to steal His children from Him by blocking their way to His eternal home.

God could easily thwart Satan’s machinations but the devil counts on using God’s gift of free will to His children against Him. He teaches the soul to rebel

If all of this appears a little vague, it is because we are only barely skimming the surface of this life and death predicament. But, I guarantee that if you will stick with me and commit to literally saving your life and the lives of others, it will become crystal clear.

All you need is endurance. You can do it. The devil is betting that you can’t. He’s wrong. But his thievery is fraught with a darkness that can rob you of your love, peace, and joy. He plants a ‘Devil Disease’ in your mind and then it begins to rot.

We will be taking an in-depth journey as we uncover every mental nook and cranny where his nastiness abides. Descriptions will be bleak and it will appear hopeless; but as we clearly and completely undercover all of Satan’s strategies, we’ll know how and where we are infected and how to seek God to help be rid of him. But first, you have to become aware that you have a problem in the first place.

I promise you that when we get over that hump and delve into the solution, it will be vastly uplifting and life changing.

The Devil Puts His Plan In Action:

We were created for a victorious life; and that victory is gained and maintained on a spiritual battlefield. The first battle took place in the Garden of Eden.

The moment Adam was created He knew the love of God – living in complete harmony with his Creator; and he saw the world through his Father’s eyes. God gave him the Garden to care for and saw to his every need. He only gave Adam one rule to follow: not to eat the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. God told Adam that if he did, death would ensue. (Gn. 2:16, 17.)

Why this rule? Well, for one thing, it was true. Adam was immortal. If ate the fruit, he would become mortal, which of course inevitably leads to physical death. But I believe the primary reason for this rule was so Adam could exercise his free will to obey God. That’s important because God sees and receives our love for Him only through our obedience:

“If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him. He who does not love Me does not keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine but the Father’s who sent Me.” Jn. 14:23, 24. NKJV

God improved on Adam’s lot by fashioning a wife for him. Unfortunately, Satan entered the scene and beguiled Eve with his clever lies. We are privy to his wiles as he questions Eve about God’s ‘one rule’ (previously related to her by Adam):

“Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden?’ “ Gn. 3:1 ESV

Here he is trying to both confuse Eve and sow seeds of doubt into her with regards to her understanding of the accuracy of what she heard. The devil deliberately misquotes God – saying that God said she couldn’t eat from any tree in the garden instead of only the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. But Eve responds by speaking God’s words correctly. (Gn. 3:2, 3.)

The devil retorts:

“You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened and you will be like God.” Gn. 3:4, 5. ESV

Thus, we begin to see the character of the devil for what it is and who he is. We see that he is a liar – telling Eve she will not die, when in fact she and Adam do. So Satan is an accomplice to their deaths, and Jesus attests to this when He describes the devil’s essence:

“He was a murderer from the beginning, and has nothing to do with the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character; for he is a liar and the father of lies.” Jn. 8:44 ESV

In fact, the devil is also calling God a liar; and if God lied about this, what else does He lie about?

If Satan contradicts God, that must mean he stands against love. […God is love. (1 Jn. 4:8 NKJV)] Moreover, look at how he tells Eve that she will be like God; i.e. she will be something she is not – implying that she was missing something. It obviously worked because she went for the fruit and gave some to Adam. (Gn. 3:6)

The change was instantaneous – their minds now filled with fear as they could see the destruction created by their decision, producing guilt, shame, and (what they perceived as) unacceptable nakedness. Their first sin was one of self-rejection because they willingly accepted the lie that there was something lacking in the way they were created (thinking they needed to be fixed), losing faith in the perfect truth of their Creator.

They also succumbed to pride – wanting to become more when in fact they became less. Death was both physical and spiritual because our holy God could not connect with their sin.

Lastly, they were now afraid of God – frightened that He would reject them. This was a new spiritual suggestion from the devil because fear and rejection are not part of God’s make-up.

This is the beginning of human suffering by their thoughts – through self-judgment.

***Man’s relationship with God shifted from one of love to another based upon fear because of their disobedience and subsequent shame stemming from their assumption that they are now unacceptable because they believe that they are less than what God intended.***

People are afraid that God doesn’t love or accept them, so they act contrary to His word, hoping to bring some temporary satisfaction to their flesh to assuage the pain they feel in their spirit. When the post-transgression shame kicks in, they try to hide from God through addictions or obsessions and lose the ability to hear Him at all.

This folks, is the devil’s masterpiece – the seed of doubt in your soul that tells you that you’re ‘unlovable’ and / or ‘not good enough.’ And this is where all your troubles come from…

Stay tuned.
Goodnight and God bless.